"Harry and Meghan: What Are Their Real Motivations?"

WARNING: This blog is written by a hopeless Romantic.  It may or may not bear the slightest resemblance to Reality in certain sections.





Everyone, it seems, has an opinion as to why Harry and Meghan left the Royal Family recently.  I confess I have never had much interest in the Royal Family before, but when a couple leaves BILLIONS of dollars behind and gains world-wide attention like this, even *I* take notice!!  And, consequently  even *I* form an opinion as to what might be their real motivations....hence, this "Chetitorial."  (I confess at the outset that there may be a lot of IGNORANCE mixed in with my opinions, something which I usually do NOT feel is the case when I write these blogs...but here goes.)

Harry and Meghan: What ARE their real motivations?? I haven't delved into this issue enough to even know if they've STATED them (yet), but it really doesn't matter. Most of us will put little stock in what they SAY, but will rely on "actions, which speak louder than words."

And TIME will tell us what their WORDS probably WON'T.  Here are MY words now.

     What if...and I emphasize "if"...the Queen was secretly making Meghan feel not welcomed into the Royal Family because she's Mixed Race, or because she's American??

     And what IF Prince Harry, to show total devotion to his new bride, exited the Royal Family WITH her to PROTECT her?? 

     IF that's what's happening, it would be the greatest example of what Jesus meant when He said "a man must leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife" that I've ever seen. Harry's leaving / cleaving would be EXEMPLARY-BEYOND-MEASURE, especially when you consider the position and wealth he's forfeiting...IF that's why he's doing it.

On the other hand....

I've read that Meghan's estranged sister thinks she is USING Harry to boost her own Hollywood career for the future. This could certainly be true, no one knows Meghan's heart and unsaved sinners are capable of ANY evil, frankly. The world is full of those who, as Dylan sang, "increase their worth at someone else's expense." (However it could ALSO be true that this estranged sister is jealous and vindictive and out to HURT Meghan....ruin her reputation.  After all, when your sister marries a PRINCE, is it not possible that a BIT of jealousy and bitterness might enter in?? Of course it is.)

I will say this...IF Harry is being manipulated and USED by Meghan, I take back all of the good things I speculated about him.  He's a chump, plain and simple (IF Meghan's sister's theory is true.)

     IF Meghan is taking advantage of Harry's love to boost her OWN standing, she's a cunning, vile human being.

     IF she falsely accused the Royal Family of making her not feel welcome, using her acting skills to persuade Harry and turn him AGAINST them, she's also a liar.

     And IF she was trying to break up HARRY'S family because HERS is obviously in shambles, well, Meghan needs psychological help.  Fast.

Personally, though I'd hate to think the Royal Family would regard "Mixed Race Meghan the American" that way, and reject her because of that, I hope this is then an example of a man LEAVING position and wealth because he LOVES HIS WIFE THAT MUCH and wants to defend her  The world NEEDS examples of men who love their wives like that, with that type of wholehearted loyalty!!