Wednesday, July 15, 2020

"How God Led Me to Start My Own Business (The Long Road)"



I wrote this after my business folded 6 years ago, thanking God for how He LED me into the business and sustained us for 35 years!! I recently rediscovered it in my files and decided to print it HERE.



My first thought of self-employment came in September 1973, when I was a teenager living at home with my mom in Newark.  Ironically, it came as I first started thinking seriously regarding employment of any kind!

Though I, a lazy hippie, had dropped out of Arts High School the previous year, I retained many friendships with other teens from the School. A friend named Gary Brown talked of owning his own (what we called them then) "candy store" in the Vailsburg section of Newark, and he wanted me as a potential partner. The thought of co-owning a business sounded good to me because I was now 18 and knew I finally had to get a job to help support my single mom.  (However, the thought of having a "boss" over me didn't appeal to me in the least. At least Gary and I would have been equals.)

Soon after, however, I got a very good-paying job with the Newark Post Office which didn't last because I was mentally lazy and even physically so (and, also, because I didn't like having a boss).
I bounced around in a few other temporary jobs over the next year or so, but I never lasted. I worked at Nane's Metal Factory a few weeks in late June '74 to raise money to go see singer Cat Stevens live in New York City that summer (the only thing resembling a "goal" that I had in those days) and then I quit. A few months later, I did volunteer (free) work at Mount Carmel Guild in downtown Newark via my contacts at Sacred Heart Cathedral. Neither of those did much to help my struggling single mom, and I'm ashamed now at my laziness and lack of vision.

I was working there at the Guild in late December 1974 when I met the new Superintendent of our apartment building, Bob Wade. Bob was a older man, a Christian studying for the ministry and before you knew it, I had a part-time job (for a small salary) as Bob's assistant. My mom and sister Liz also resided in this building, 69 North 9th Street in Newark, and I lived with them on the fourth floor at the time.

3 months later I became a Christian through studying the Bible with Bob in March of 1975, and when he and his family moved from Newark to Belleville in June, I became the Superintendent of “69” via his recommendation. A very old man named Solomon Friedman was now my boss, but he was a distance away from this building he owned and rarely visited in-person. I was only 20 years old, but the Lord was training me for self-employment because I suddenly had a lot of responsibility for a young, single guy. It was my job to make sure every one of the 30 or so tenants (it was a 60 unit building, but only about half of the apartments were rented due to the deteriorating neighborhood) were safe and had their plumbing and electrical needs met. I also was responsible to keep the building clean and rodent / roach free. My biggest concern was taking care of the huge boiler in the building. I had to obtain a Boiler License, with Bob's help.  As a Christian now, it was the first thing I ever studied for that I applied myself to with my whole heart.

I started going to church where Bob and his family did, though it involved walking two miles and taking a bus for about ten. Attending Trinity Baptist Church, then in suburban Essex Fells, I heard wonderful sermons regarding a Biblical Work Ethic by Pastor Al Martin that fall. For the first time I saw, from Scripture, that work was something noble and something by which we could actually glorify God! It wasn't a "necessary evil" to me anymore but I'd learned it could actually be pleasurable and profitable financially, physically, mentally and even spiritually. I also started to think seriously about getting married one day, and slowly realized that none of the girls there at Trinity would want to settle down in the inner-city of Newark. In fall '75, I added a second part-time job, as Dennis O'Connor's assistant Super, in Elizabeth and the next Spring I took the same role of Assistant Super where his mother lived, in nearby Bloomfield, in addition to my Super's job in Newark. (At that point, I dropped the second job in Elizabeth. It was too complicated to travel to, as it involved two buses. The Bloomfield job only involved one bus for me. I had no car because my main job, as the Super in Newark, didn’t require one as I worked "on-site." And, to get a car insured in dangerous NEWARK would have cost far more than I could afford, anyway.)

My first exposure to Carpet Cleaning
That summer, I needed my new carpets cleaned in my Newark apartment, courtesy of Katos, a black Labrador Retriever I had purchased from Bob for protection. Katos made a few “doggie” spots and I called Dave Edwards, a man from Trinity who had just begun his own carpet cleaning business, to the rescue.

Dave used his portable machine to make my carpets look like new, and I was impressed and fascinated by the steam-cleaning process he used. Before you knew it, I was helping Dave occasionally on a few of his jobs to make extra cash. I also admired how Dave was an entrepreneur...he didn't even have a "far-away" boss like Mr. Friedman to answer to! His business was between him and God alone. I liked that.

I recall cleaning Grace Presbyterian Church in Upper Montclair with Dave, a job he obtained, I believe, through the Christian Yellow Pages. I mark this as my first carpet cleaning job ever. It was hot and sweaty work there in August 1976 as I got buckets of water for Dave, but I enjoyed seeing "quick results" from our work and it was very satisfying labor. I also saw potential to make large amounts of money cleaning carpets. "Supers" were compensated with free rent, free utilities and a very small salary (not to mention the advantage of being able to survive without a vehicle to get you to-and-from your job), but I wanted to make enough money to buy a car and be able to marry and support a family one day.

In September 1976, I moved up from Newark to take a Super's position at a very nice building near The Green in (at that time) suburban Bloomfield. I wanted to relocate in a better neighborhood, and my new building, 11 Park Place, was right around the corner from where the Wades now lived! But suddenly Bob had a new job offer in Michigan and quit his job taking care of boilers at Bloomfield College to move with his wife and young daughters to the Midwest. I kept that Super's job for six months, and the only thing that interested me about it was when the fuel truck would deliver oil in the long hose that extended from the vehicle into the building itself. You see, unlike the location I managed in Newark, this one was totally full...but it was totally full of elderly people who I had nothing in common with. With the Wades gone, I therefore felt very lonely. In March 1977, I moved into the house that Dave owned, at nearby 90 Thomas, in Bloomfield with several other young single guys from the church. Dave and his wife lived on the first floor, and the rest of us single guys occupied the second and third floors (a single young lady from the church lived in the basement).

Dave was now my landlord and my employer, as I "signed on" to be his regular helper in his carpet cleaning business. I come from a broken home so my dad and (later on) my step-father didn't do much to train me for a career, but it's clear that the Lord used Bob Wade, Dennis O'Connor and Dave Edwards to "restore the years the locusts have eaten," as Scripture promises. God used them to nurture and prepare me for my career as a self-employed carpet cleaner. Dave sold me my first car and I became a "sub-sub contractor," working under him as he sub-contracted his carpet cleaning services for Adler and Son using portable shampoo and steam-cleaning equipment. From April 1977-December of that year, I lived at Dave's house, still attended Trinity, worked for Dave / Adler and Son and dated several different single girls from the church, looking for the right one.

My first two Carpet Cleaning businesses
In January 1978, the "Slow Season," I drove out to visit the Wades in Michigan, planning to stay for a month. (I had actually flown out to visit them around Easter of 1977, so it was my second visit.) On this trip, I met Beth Zinke in Trinity's “sister church” there, and fell in love. I stayed with the Wades for two months, and, because Dave allowed me to bring the portable equipment in my Vega in case I "rustled up any side jobs," Bob and I started "B&C Carpet Cleaners" in Grand Rapids ("B&C" stood for "Bob & Chet.")

"B&C" didn't do too well, but "C&B" ("Chet & Beth") DID, and in March I officially moved from New Jersey to Michigan to court Beth. I got a job with "Ayoub's Carpet Cleaners" in Grand Rapids and began working full-time there. It should be noted that "Ayoub's" had truck-mounted carpet cleaning equipment, quite a step up from what Dave and Adler used, and it was my first exposure to it. I liked the way the long hoses could extend from the truck into the houses, just like those fuel delivery trucks! Dan VanderMeer worked with me at "Ayoub's" and I learned a lot about diligence working under Dan.

In April Beth and I got engaged and were working towards a Grand Rapids wedding in October 1978, but various circumstances made it clear that God wanted us to delay the wedding until January 1979 and move back to New Jersey. So, in September 1978 I headed back to Jersey alone to get my old apartment back (with basically the same guys at 90 Thomas, and Dave as my landlord again), and a job working directly for Adler & Son (not under Dave now, so I could make more money.) Beth stayed behind in Michigan, knowing I was going to prepare a place for her where we both could live, after the wedding. One of my roommates gave me a car which I used to haul Adler's equipment around (back to the portable shampoo and steam-cleaning equipment again...ugh) but I was highly motivated to work hard towards our marriage. Actually, as I think of it, my boss, Harvey Marks, loaned me his station wagon until I could get the Vega station wagon I was given by my roommate (Pete Caruso) on the road.

Adler & Son allowed us to have our own "side business" cleaning carpets with their equipment, after hours, as long as we didn't steal any of their customers. My brother-in-law Lawrence Cooney, who had just started working at Adler, teamed up with me to start "Karpet King." That was my second attempt at starting "my own" business, and it did better than "B & C" did earlier that year, in Michigan, but still these were partnerships and so they weren't my own business in the truest sense.

As 1978 ended, the winter, and "Slow Season" was approaching and so was my wedding (January 7th, 1979.) Dennis O'Connor arranged for me to become Super at Marian Gardens, a 48 unit garden apartment complex on 263 Bloomfield Ave. in Bloomfield where I had previously worked as his mom's assistant briefly. It was to be my third (and best) Super's job with a second floor (not basement) apartment. Oh yeah, I was called "Resident Manager" now, not "the Super." The free rent was another attractive perk for a couple about to get married who had very little money! For the last two months before the wedding, I moved in with Rich Immitt, who also went to Trinity and worked at Adler, to be closer to Marian Gardens and supervise the readying of my apartment. In all of this shuffle, "Karpet King" just kind of died a natural death when Harvey laid Lawrence and me (and many of Adler's other "subs") off for the winter (we had to turn in our equipment every Slow Season.)

Additionally, my car was in a wreck and I couldn't afford to buy a new one (nor did I need to, as I was going to be a Super again and carpet cleaning was "done" until the spring.)  "Karpet King" had only done 13 jobs in not even three months, the largest of which was for Mrs. Capelakos, from our old neighborhood in Newark ($135, which Lawrence and I split.) In fact, most of the jobs he and I did together were from friends or relatives who felt sorry for us! But I now lacked a vehicle and equipment, so that was the end of "Karpet King." There were no tears of sorrow at its demise, however. I was focused on getting Beth to New Jersey from Michigan for our wedding on January 7th and on beginning the new Super's job on January 15th. I was headed towards my future, and "Karpet King" was in the past.

At this point, everything was in threes for me.

*I had had three regular jobs before I was a Christian (Post office, Nanes, Mount Carmel Guild.)

*I had three jobs as an Assistant Super (for Bob, for Dennis, for Dennis' mom.)

*I now had had three jobs as a Superintendent (69 North 9th St. in Newark, 11 Park Place and now "263" in Bloomfield.)

*Three times I had been employed working as a carpet cleaner for someone else ("Dave's Discount Carpet Cleaning Service," "Ayoub's" and "Adler and Son." By this time, by the way, Dave had changed his business name from "Dave's Discount" to "A Master's Touch.")

And now, with the new Super's job providing a roof over our heads, as a newly married man who was motivated (because my wife quickly got pregnant with our first child), I wanted to take a third stab at having my own carpet cleaning business! Whereas "B&C" and "Karpet King" had just died natural deaths after very short lives, "ALL-OUT CARPET CLEANING" (later changed to CleaNERS) was the one I started in May 1979 and the third time WAS a charm…it lasted 35 years, with God’s blessing!! GLORY TO GOD FOR THE PRIVILEGE OF HAVING MY OWN BUSINESS AND PROVIDING ALL THAT I NEEDED SO THAT I COULD PROVIDE FOR MY FAMILY!!







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